Got the shift mech off this morning, heat shield off, split exhaust, batt, ECU, airbox, centre console off.
Pics below, broken bush is for side to side movement, there was no cable reaction to for and aft, so I split assembly and that cable had come off ball at the bottom of shift, rubber gaiter that keeps crap out of top ball of shifter is split and dragged out of retaining plate.
Aforementioned fore/aft cable clip back in, although clips are weak to me.
Two faults on mech are either foul play or bad luck, possibly bottom cable came loose and it was bitched slapped around like crazy to try and get it into gear and bush broke?
Anyway, no use crying, I'm looking for a 8200346859 , if he can get new with cables, we'll go for that, if not s/h mech and new cables.
I feel better now it's off, it's all fixable.
Crack on, keep fighting.