no the injectors all open at once, its a batch/gang fire system so all 4 injectors fire at the same time.
Thats why the injectors all go into one wire as you found.
Also the switching is induced by switching to ground, the injectors are always live, the ecu earths them allowing them to fire.
Either you have an internal ecu issue (you said its fine on 3 ecus) that leaves the looms either shorting out flooding the engine via the injecotrs as you say you have changed everything else that controls the fueling.
I still say loom issue as you have replaced everything else more than once